The Importance of a First Impression

Written By | Leadership Success | June 10th, 2013 | 5 Comments »

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Making a great first impression is imperative to becoming an influential leader. The ancient Greeks spent a lot of time thinking and writing about the effect of one personality on another. They broke down the process of communication into three parts, which they called ethos, pathos and logos.

The ethos of communication is defined as the ethical part. This revolves around the person you really are and, more important, the person you are perceived to be. If you are in sales or business, the way you are perceived by someone, which will largely determine the influence you have over him or her, will be strongly affected by your level of credibility, your ethos. In the area of personal credibility, the rule is that everything counts. Everything you do or don’t do either adds to or takes away from your credibility and your capability to influence someone. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, in essence, that what you are shouts at me so loudly, I cannot hear a word you are saying. Ethos is very important.

A First Impression Says Everything

Perhaps the simplest example of the application of this rule, that everything counts, involves your image or appearance. You’ve heard it said that you never get a second chance to make a good first impression. The fact is that when you first meet a person, he makes a judgment about you in approximately four seconds, and his judgment is finalized largely within 30 seconds of the initial contact. In a survey of the members of the American Personnel Consultants¾ those men and women who are responsible for hiring people for large companies¾members generally agreed that they made their decision to hire or not to hire a person within 30 seconds of the first meeting.

Everything Counts: Make a Personal Statement

Everything contributing to the way you look on the outside is important. If it’s not helping you, it’s hurting you. While you cannot control your physical features, you have total control over your dress and grooming. In fact, we generally assume that a person consciously and deliberately makes a personal statement about himself with every part of his appearance that he can affect in any way.

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Your clothes are responsible for 95 percent of the first impression that you make on someone because, in most instances, your clothes cover 95 percent of your body. Your grooming, your hair style and the other ways you can determine your appearance from the neck up also exert an inordinate influence on the way that you are perceived, on your ethos with someone. Your accessories, such as purse or briefcase, watch, tie, rings, pens and other elements, all make a statement that will or will not help to put you in a position to influence someone.

Now, here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into action.

First, take complete control over every detail of your personal appearance and grooming. Resolve to look like a powerful, influential person in all your business activities.

Second, study fashion and proper dress so you know exactly what to wear and in what combination. Read a book, take a seminar or even hire an image consultant. Small changes in your appearance can change your life.

Thank you for reading this article about the importance of a first impression and why everything counts when becoming a leader. Please share and comment below!

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About Brian Tracy – Brian Tracy is recognized as the top sales training and personal success authority in the world today. He has authored more than 60 books and has produced more than 500 audio and video learning programs on sales, management, business success and personal development, including worldwide bestseller The Psychology of Achievement. Brian’s goal is to help you achieve your personal and business goals faster and easier than you ever imagined. You can follow him on google+, facebook, and twitter.

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  3. Justine says on February 22, 2014 at 1:26 am:

    You overheard your mother sadly telling Aunt Martha that you were her “average one” and
    that she can’t get you off the couch and away from Mario Brothers to
    save her life. It is also good that you pick the right color to combine with your outfit.
    You can truly create a happy story–a veritable personal fairy tale–if you
    apply consciously and deliberately the Law of Attraction.

    • Brian Tracy says on March 10, 2014 at 2:48 pm:

      You are very welcome. Thank you for commenting and I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed the blog post. To YOUR success, Brian Tracy

  4. Parker Geiger says on September 26, 2013 at 2:11 pm:

    GREAT Article!

    As an image and brand coach, I wish I could have said it better;-). What I would like everyone to know is that wearing the right colors, saying the right thing or using the proper fork does not make one successful. It’s knowing you are doing all the right things that creates confidence and it’s confidence that translates into success!

    Thank you Mr. Tracy for saying it so well.

    Parker Geiger

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