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The Three Primary Virtues

Posted by Brian Tracy on Aug 11, 2009

three1Adam Smith, in his important book The Theory of Moral Sentiments, wrote that excellent people have three primary virtues: prudence, justice, and benevolence, in that order. Each of them is essential to the others and to the living of a full life in society.

Virtue #1: Prudence

The virtue of prudence refers to your developing the habit of providing well for yourself, your family, your friends, your co-workers, and your company. This requires that you think intelligently and honestly about the very best course of action to maximize your opportunities and minimize possible danger and threats. The habit of prudence means you investigate every investment carefully, think ahead about what might happen if you were to take a particular course of action, and take intelligent steps to guard against setbacks and reversals of fortune. The most successful people are those who are prudent in the conduct in all of their personal and business affairs.

Virtue #2: Justice is Blind

The second habit for you to develop is the habit of justice. This refers to your commitment to the establishment and maintenance of laws in society that protect the person and property of every individual. The American republic has endured for more than 200 years because it was carefully established by the founding fathers on the basis of law, not men. At every level of our society, specific laws are prescribed and laid down that are applicable to all people, regardless of wealth or station in life.

John Rawls, the Harvard philosopher and author of A Theory of Justice (Belknap Press, revised edition, 1999), once presented a question to his class that has been repeated often through the years.

Imagine that you could write the laws and create the circumstances of your society. You are given the power to prescribe the economic, social and political relationships that would exist in your country throughout your lifetime.

There is only one limitation on your power. You would set up this structure without knowing into what sort of family or situation you would be born. You would not know in advance what sort of physical condition you might be born with. Whatever system of laws and customs you decided upon, you would then be required to live by them for the rest of your life. What kind of structure would you design in this situation?

The answer to this question is the very essence of the concept of justice.  The statue of justice, holding the balances and scales in her hand, is blind folded. True justice is therefore applicable to all people who live under a certain system, irrespective of their background. When you make the habit of justice an organizing virtue for your own character, you will insist that, whatever the relative power of the parties, everyone be treated fairly and justly in the resolution of any difficulty or dispute.

The habit of prudence is essential for personal success. The habit of justice is essential for the creation of a society within which a person can pursue his or her own best interests with the greatest of possibilities. The rule is that you should never want or demand anything from anyone else that you are not perfectly willing to accept for yourself.

Virtue #3: Benevolence

The third quality you must develop is the habit of benevolence. This is one of the hallmark characteristics of the truly superior person. Aristotle referred to it as one of the eight essential virtues, that of “generosity.” Most people are psychologically and emotionally structured in such a way that they are only truly happy and satisfied when they feel they are doing something that serves and benefits other people. When you give freely and generously of yourself to others, whether it is to members of your family or to members of the public, you feel more valuable and happier inside. When you dedicate yourself to serving your customers with the very best quality product or service of which you are capable, not only do you feel a deep sense of personal satisfaction, but you also put yourself on the side the angels when it comes to personal and business success. You remember the principle: “The more you give of yourself to others with expectation of return, the more good things there are that will come back to you from the most unexpected sources.”

The regular practice of prudence, justice, and benevolence leads naturally to feelings and actions of kindness, compassion, and tolerance toward other people. You become more open minded and flexible. You develop greater patience and understanding. You are less judgmental or demanding of others. You become a better and finer person.

Action Exercise

Imagine yourself to be a person of complete honesty and impeccable integrity. Is there any behavior of yours that you would change?

22 Comments »

Very well said.. three very powerful virtues to reach for.

August 11th, 2009 | 3:35 pm

How does one page of text generate so much thought? I have written and rewritten this comment so many times.

Here are the salient points

At first I thought Points 1 and 3 are natural (easy). Point 2 is right and true but difficult. However arguing internally through several iterations it transpires that but accident/ design I also accomplish point 2 without realising. My internal moral compass/ scales do not balance if this is not adhered to even if I am discuss these actions with a strongly minded person.
The acid test of “Imagine yourself to be … what would you change” is simple and powerful just as is “you have 6 months to live what are you doing different?”. Perhaps you should ask yourself “how do I make it as simple as that” rather than using it as a reason not to do something?

August 11th, 2009 | 4:21 pm
Kelly Nelson:

Nice angle for an intellectual approach to things. But for me intellectual approaches involve too much working from the “outside to the in” while I prefer the more visceral approaches ie. working from the “inside to the out”. Feels more organic and natural that way.

Successful Regards,

KE

August 11th, 2009 | 6:25 pm

Great question on integrity. Here’s another: how flexible is your integrity?

August 11th, 2009 | 7:08 pm

Once again you have summed up a wealth of experience and knowledge in a few short words. Thank you Brian for your benevolence. The content of this post, when taken to heart, will change lives for the better. You are a wonderful example of how to conduct oneself and a brilliant role model for young and old. Thanks again Brian for your contributions.

August 11th, 2009 | 7:31 pm

This is very interesting. It’s not often that you hear about prudence in today’s fast paced, action-oriented go get ‘em economy. Maybe that’s why we’re in the shape we’re in, and maybe prudence, along with the other two virtues, are the path out!

August 12th, 2009 | 6:33 am

This is an eye opener,i must confess my eyes have been enlighten to the 21st century reality,so i can handle so things now base on these very three points highlighted,thanks forthe expo-s-e.

August 12th, 2009 | 7:03 am
Ayman Amin:

If someone combines these virtues, although it is essential to the others and to the living of a full life in society, however he will be happy in his own life.

August 12th, 2009 | 7:16 am

People forget about benevolence all too often.

“You can get what you want out of life, by helping other people get what they want,” doesn’t just apply to providing a paid service or a “you scratch my back and I’ll scratch your” situation.

Benevolence has its own rewards, material and otherwise.

August 12th, 2009 | 5:04 pm

Thank you very much! I’m sure this will help me.

August 13th, 2009 | 1:24 am

Brian,

Awesome Post.

I loved the 3rd one, especially because it refers back to business. In order to become wealthy, you need to give first, help others, give value.

Igor

August 13th, 2009 | 8:58 am
Noah:

This is one of the most interesting post I have ever come accross on the net.it opens my eyes to really know what the virtues mean

August 14th, 2009 | 2:51 am

The most beautiful feeling in my life,When i Help others and i am not waiting for reply.
do Good and Put it in the sea
thx Brian for your nice word :)

August 14th, 2009 | 2:37 pm

I like the three virtues. All are real and ones we don’t think of often.

August 14th, 2009 | 2:57 pm

Thankyou for writing this post Brian!

These three habits really have a potential of changing the world if just enough people would live by them.

I think the best advice to start changing the world is to start from yourself. These three habits sounds like a great way to go.

Thanks again!

August 14th, 2009 | 10:37 pm
Alain Manzenza:

I become very keen with these three vertues and my understanding of life is shape in a second by reading this article

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I would like to thank you Brian for such great content and if your not considered a genuis then you certainly should be

August 25th, 2009 | 5:04 am
Manoranajn Chowhan:

Thank you Brian for your excellent lessons which I shall try to incorporate in my day to day practice this specially point3 which is cornerstone of my practice as a Physician gives me immense happiness.
Thanks for your excellent article.

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